世上无法复制的是朋友，不可缺少的也是朋友。交往需要你用一颗阳光坦诚的心去接纳他人，很多得自闭症的人都是由于封锁自己、缺乏交流，交往是培养和增进感情的起点。我国清代诗人何绍基一天收到家书，说的是家中为三尺地与邻居争执，要他速回，他微微一笑赋诗一首：万里家书只为墙，让人三尺又何妨。长城万里今犹在，不见当年秦始皇。终于，在他的开导下，两家化干戈为玉帛。这是交往的技巧，也是交往的魅力，交往需要用理智战胜情感，需要一份宽容，一份理解。

与人相处有时看的并不是你给对方的赠物有多少，这个不足以作为情谊的衡量标准，周恩来是我十分敬佩的一位，在西安事变爆发之时，接到命令赴西安与蒋谈判，出发前，朱德将伴随自己多年的一条毛毯赠给周恩来，供御寒之用。抗日战争爆发后，朱德奔赴前线，周恩来又将这条毛毯回赠给了朱德。一条毛毯，牢系着两位革命战友的深厚情谊，更显示了革命者以天下为己任的品德修养，越是平凡质朴的东西，越能体现那个年代结下的情谊，以此作为衡量的应是对真情的感悟与否。

沟通源于寂寞，也许很多人都不了解这个观点，当然，无法沟通，也就更加寂寞，或许诗歌真的是从寂寞中酿出来的，否则为什么所有的诗人都那么落寞?海子也不例外，他大概是太寂寞了，有一次他问一家餐馆的老板，能不能朗诵完诗后就给酒喝，结果，被老板当成是一个说话神经兮兮，脑瓜子有毛病的人，便嘲讽道：我可以给你酒喝，但你别在这儿朗诵!海子默默走出了这个餐馆，同时也走进了更深的寂寞。这种寂寞也源于沟通，源于人世的冷眼，而正是这种寂寞，造就了一代诗者，诗成了他心灵交往的纽带，深深诠释者他的悲喜人生。

法与德的关系作文篇2

邻里和睦是中华传统道德文化中高尚的美德。几千年来，先人们也一直做着亲身示范。时至今时，也成为我们现代社会努力追求的目标。

中国历史上流传着不少邻里和睦的佳话。明朝礼部尚书杨翥，居住在京城，喜欢骑驴代步。他对驴子特别地偏爱，每天早上上朝回家都要亲自为驴擦洗梳理，生怕驴子受了什么委屈。而杨翥的邻居是一位老人，他老来得子，对这个孩子自然疼爱异常。可这个孩子有一个毛病，就是听到杨翥的驴叫就哭个不停，搞得全家人都不得安宁。于是，老人就和杨翥说了这件事。向来爱驴的杨翥二话不说就把驴子给卖了……这段佳话正是邻里和睦的最佳印证，邻里之间需要体谅和包容，人人都需要尽力去维护融洽的邻里关系。当然，你尊重了你的邻居，必然也会得到同等的尊重。

那么，何为“邻里”呢？《说文》称：“五家为邻。”《周礼》又称：“五家为邻，五邻为里。”这大概说的就是离得近的五户人家被称为邻，彼此离得很近，大家接触多了，也变得情同手足。古时有句话讲得好：“远亲不如近邻。”亲人再好可远在他乡，远远及不上邻居的近在咫尺。亲，是生而相连的；邻，却是距离的牵绊。两户人家关系和睦融洽，不是亲人却胜似亲人。

那么邻里关系的融洽又该怎么维护呢？唯一的秘诀就是始终保持着一颗热枕的心。人与人之间的距离是通过沟通来拉近的。当我们在与邻居谈话时，需要用真心去沟通，而不要是带着冰冷的面具去交谈。送邻居一缸的锦鲤，和送邻居一缸的蝌蚪同样都可以拉近双方之间距离。所以说，送什么，给什么，这都不重要，正如老话说的“礼轻情意重。”即使你没有很好的物质馈赠，但若你有一颗火热的心用来当催化剂便已然足够了，而我说的热枕之心不外乎就是这个道理。

杜甫有诗云：“餐市远无兼味，樽酒家贫只旧醅。肯与邻翁相对饮，隔篱呼取尽余杯。”杜甫与邻翁都可对饮了，你是否有也打算敲敲隔壁从来不被你问津的房门呢？

法与德的关系作文篇3

communication between people is of utmost importance.the importance cannot be stressed too much.

it is said in the bible that once upon a time,humans communicated with each other in one language.so they attempted to build the babel tower to communicate with god,only to find such dream was a castle in the air.in the aftermath,humans were trapped into troubles due to the misunderstandings between them.the jealous god plunged us into such bitterness.even now,people with different races and religions are dragged into endless wars.people are crying and dying!such consequences are rooted deeply in the lack of communication.therefore,lack of communication will lead to perish of human beings.

on the contrary,mutual understanding can be well-established between people if we communicate with each other.that is,the rapport between two countries will be strengthened and the misunderstanding will be reduced if there is a dialogue channel.likewise,friends can become closer if they argue with each other.no one likes to but it is necessary to be healthy.arguments between people are a way of communication,by which we can find a solution to the conflictions between us.consequently,we promote the mutual understanding.

‍to conclude,through communication,mutual understanding can be promoted and fostered between people with difference races,religions,sex and ideologies.one way is to argue (not totally means quarrels) during the communication to clarify the different views.lack of communication will surely lead to perish of mankind.

法与德的关系作文篇4

11月1日月桂树(laurustinus) 灵巧(skillfulness)

11月2日冬樱花(winter cherry) 悸动(throb)

11月3日西洋樱草(common primrose) 雅致朴素(elegant simplicity)

11月4日草莓树(strawberry tree) 痛苦(bitter taste)

11月5日冬樱花(winter cherry) 东方的神秘(oriental mystery)

11月6日紫杉(yew) 高傲的孤独(proud loneliness)

11月7日烟雾花(fumitory) 创先(pioneer)

11月8日风信子(common hyacinth) 顽固(stubborn)

11月9日风信子(common hyacinth) 注目(attention)

11月10日苏格兰松(scots pine) 大器晚成(latematurity)

11月11日威姆士松树(weymouth pine) 航海(voyage)

11月12日风信子(common hyacinth) 道德(moral)

11月13日香甜花(sweet bay) 香甜(sweet fragrance)

11月14日葡萄牙月桂树(portuguese laurel) 谈判(negotiation)

11月15日冬紫罗兰(winter heliotrope) 神秘(mysterious)

11月16日岳母舌(mother-in-law's tongue) 诽谤中伤(backbiting)

11月17日苹果花(thorn-apple) 陷阱(trap)

11月18日西番莲(granadilla) 憧憬(yearning)

11月19日时钟花(apple-fruited granadilla) 高贵(nobleness)

11月20日腐肉花(carrion flower) 受欢迎(popular)

11月21日粉花酢浆草(pink-flowered wood sorrel) 品位辛辣(pungent taste)

11月22日百慕达奶油花(bermuda buttercup) 忽视(ignore)

11月23日酢浆草(wood sorrel) 复活节(easter)

11月24日腐肉花(carrion flower) 诗人(poet)

11月25日冬紫罗(winter heliotrope) 占有欲(desire to monopolize)

11月26日粉红酢浆草(pink-flowered wood sorrel) 邻居(neighbor)

11月27日百慕达奶油花(bermuda buttercup) 强韧(toughness)

11月28日腐肉花(carrion flower) 庇护者(patron)

11月29日月桂树(laurustinus) 顽固(stubborn)

11月30日酢浆草(wood sorrel) 健康食物(healthy foods)

法与德的关系作文篇5

前几天大学同学婚礼，部分同学从天南地北赶过来参加。我一向不爱热闹，所以没有跟他们去唱歌怎么的，也没去给新娘子帮忙。从大学开始我就厌倦了他们一次又一次的活动，所以毕业后他们的聚会我能不参加就不参加。因为我感觉自己在这些活动中不开心，没有地位和发言权，只是配角。去哪玩吃饭唱歌都不会问我的意见，只有凑钱的份。我讨厌这种所谓的大学情，虚假的友谊。更可恨的是我们大学时一些人成立了一个小团队，我是其中一员。可毕业后他们的相册里那个团队都没有我的照片，就像前几天的婚礼的照片我照了，却而没有我的影子，只上传了我没有照过的照片。原来我只个小丑。我心里有仇恨也有伤感。而且新娘子因为我没去参加婚前的活动而在婚礼没给我一个笑脸，对我极其的冷漠。

有时我会想是我自己太冷漠，还是他人太无情。哎。为什么总是碰到这样事情。别人不把你当什么就算了，封钱还没个笑脸。想必他们已经集体排挤我了，打压我了？想想自己真是没用，人际关系一团糟。有时总怪自己太软弱，如果我不开心我还得去做。所以表面上我没得罪任何人，但任何人都对我有意见。没有几个人真正想跟我做朋友。哎，任谁没受过伤，算了吧，仇恨只会让人痛苦和腐蚀人的灵魂，忘记吧。

法与德的关系作文篇6

every relationship is a sacred dance. there are moments when partners are so aligned that they move as one. at other times, they struggle over who is leading and step on each othersquo;s toes. peace and success in life require us to be masters of relationships.

several essential principles support healthy relationships. integrate these basic tenets into your view of yourself and the people in your life, and you will experience a renewed sense of freedom and optimism in your relationships.

1. we are responsible for our own emotional life.

if we are to experience comfortable, nourishing relationships, we have to relinquish the idea that someone else can make us feel a certain way. if we hold another person responsible when we are upset, we surrender our power, which makes us less capable of creating the outcome we seek. if there is something that is lacking in one of your core relationships, cast off the role of victim and commit to creating the love you deserve.

2. healthy relationships are based upon a deep rooted conviction in equality.

ego-rooted relationships reinforce insecurities. when one person criticizes, demeans, or asserts authority over another, it may temporarily improve the self-esteem of one by lowering anothersquo;s, but this assumption of power is always vulnerable. relationships based upon mutual respect liberate energy that becomes available for creativity.

this principle is of particular importance when the relationship is between an adult and a child. it is essential for the parent to recognize the childsquo;s equality on the level of the soul. if this intention is present throughout childrensquo;s upbringing, they will develop a sense of dignity and respect that will serve them throughout their lives.

3. conscious communication builds nurturing relationships.

determine what you need and ask for it. teach the people in your family to identify their needs and express themselves in ways that increase the likelihood that their needs will be met.

show your children how to get needs met without resorting to emotional escalation. your behavior provides the most compelling lesson.

4. give what you seek.

human beings have four basic needs in a relationship: attention, affection, appreciation, and acceptance. we give attention by making eye contact. we express affection by connecting physically with sensitivity and permission. we demonstrate appreciation by telling and showing people that they add value to our lives. we provide acceptance by cultivating an internal conversation of recognizing ourselves in the other and the other in ourselves.

be generous with the people in your life and you will spontaneously see these expressions returning to you in kind. if you have children, shower them with attention, affection, appreciation, and acceptance and watch them flourish.

5. remember that life is short.

enjoy what you have. donsquo;t waste time indulging in petty grievances. we sometimes avoid healing our relationships, because we anticipate there will be plenty of time in the future. do what you can from your side to create peace now. free your heart from grievances and regrets now. do not allow your present to be trapped in the past.

法与德的关系作文篇7

in addition to the university knowledge, the most critical and most basic is the human capacity,

wherein the culture interpersonal skills is particularly important.

we college students as the successors of socialist construction is particularly important to establish good interpersonal relationships. university is an important turning point towards interpersonal socialization, into the university,

you will encounter

all aspects of relationships: between teachers and students, between students and classes, the relationship between the individual and the other schools

wait. built on the university campus good relationships, form a solidarity, vibrant environment that will benefit students in the formation and development of a healthy personality traits.

how to handle relationships, for a few years of college life and future career success it is essential to develop good interpersonal efficiency capability, not only the needs of university life, but also in the future to meet the needs of society.

a no communicative ability, as boat on land is never drift to the magnificent sea to go.

why interpersonal relationships so important? first, interpersonal exchange of information,

an important way to acquire knowledge; second, interpersonal individual self-understanding,

an important means of self-improvement; third, interpersonal is a collective growth and social development needs. over the years, students in the college entrance examination baton long,

too much emphasis on the pursuit of achievement while ignoring the other qualities of culture and other interpersonal skills. after entering the universities,

few schools have a special system training courses, resulting in some students a high iq, eq is very low,

often processing

how to get along well with others, communicate, communicate. in the university campus job fair held, employee communication and communication skills increasingly become the main driving force for enterprise in the market competition to win,

thus the employer in the recruitment of more attention seekers "eq"

. faced with the employer out of the terms of employment, more and more students feel the importance of interpersonal skills.

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